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How IDEA Can Help You Help Your Child
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By NCLD Editorial Staff
Published: February 24 2009 | Updated: February 3 2012

If a bear cub wanders into your campsite, you know to be extra cautious — because you know somewhere in the underbrush there's a mama bear ready to protect her young. As a parent, your instinct is to protect your child. When it comes to making sure your child is being afforded every opportunity to succeed in school, it's best not to come bounding out of the underbrush!


A critical first step is to gather information about your child's progress and understand your rights under the law. The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) provides very specific procedural safeguards, or rights, to help parents advocate for their child's educational well-being. So settle down for a few minutes under the protective umbrella of IDEA, think about your bear cub rooting through picnic baskets filled with educational content and skill-building activities, and learn your rights under the IDEA.

 

Under IDEA, you have the right to:

 

  • Examine all of your child's records;
  • Participate in all meetings concerning your child;
  • Agree or disagree with placement decisions;
  • Request independent evaluations at public expense;
  • Request a hearing to present your concerns about your child's education, and
  • Be provided written notice of decisions made by the school district.


You are the guardian of your child's future, and no one knows your child as well as you do. Together with school personnel, it's your shared responsibility to make sure that your child learns the skills needed to succeed in school and beyond. Reach out to people at your child's school and be a willing and active partner in developing and implementing a plan that ensures your child's academic growth and sets them on a path to becoming a fully engaged and contributing member of society.

 

You Are a Key Decision-Maker

 

Even though you may not have formal background or training in education or another related profession, you are a key decision-maker in your child's education and you must be knowledgeable about your child's disability, strengths, weaknesses, and needs. Make sure you understand:

 

  • The evaluation and eligibility process that can lead to the development of an Individualized Education Program (IEP)
  • How to measure your child's progress
  • What is meant by scientific research-based methodologies
  • You are a significant member of your child's IEP team. Unless you submit written consent for the school to make decisions without your input (which you should never do!), the school must include you as an equal partner and take into account any questions and concerns you have about your child's education. The school must also provide you with an opportunity to detail the goals, instructional methodologies and techniques that are included on your child's IEP.


The call to parents is this: embrace your responsibility and become an invaluable partner with your child's school to ensure that your child receives an effective, meaningful and appropriate education.

 

Strategies to Help You "Charge the Campsite"

 

  1. Develop (and keep up-to-date) an "educational binder" for your child, including all test data, report cards, progress notes, IEPs, fact sheets about your child's disability and work samples. Keep these materials on hand and share openly with teachers and others so red tape can be avoided and quick and effective decisions can be made.
  2. Educate yourself about your child's disability and how it affects your child in the classroom, on the playground, and with friends.
  3. Join a parent organization where you can seek information, ask questions and learn from other parents' experiences.
  4. Read, read, read! Keep yourself up-to-date on research findings concerning your child's specific areas of struggle, educational strategies and new types of interventions.
  5. Know your state's special education regulations. Ask your school district for copies of these regulations (how the law is intended to be implemented) or download them from the Internet. If you need help understanding your rights, look for local and state chapters of organizations like the Learning Disabilities Association (LDA) and International Dyslexia Association (IDA) as well as Parent Training and Information Centers, called PTIs, on the Resource Locator as well.
  6. Develop a strong partnership with your child's school that demonstrates a level of collaboration with each individual member of your child's team and respect for their expertise.
  7. Be respectful of the school's time and resources. Be concise during phone calls and meetings, keeping your emotions in check and looking to solutions rather than blame when discussing your child.
  8. Take responsibility for your child's education and utilize your rights. Take an active role in the development of your child's IEP, follow your child's progress throughout the school year and hold yourself and the school accountable for ensuring meaningful and sufficient progress is made each year. This includes developing the skills he or she needs to be independent beyond the school years and to enjoy lifelong success.
  9. Bring in others to help you. Invite people you trust and respect to help brainstorm solutions with you, and feel free to invite them to join in conversations with school personnel.
  10. Stand up, speak out and be counted! Write letters, call your legislators and, if you believe your role as a parent is being denied in your child's school, take action!

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3 Comments

  1. My son is 14 years old and a freshmen in high school. He has always attended public schools. He has always struggled when it comes to learning at school. When he was in first grade he was tested and his learning disability was recognized. He has a IEP, I havent really seen much progress in my sons education. Two years ago i got a letter from his principal stateing my son no longer needs special help, he dosent qualify for services and that he met his goals and no longer needs a IEP. Because i was unable to attend a IEP meeting because i had to work, that was the desision the team came up with. i was asked to sign a paper saying i agreed with the outcome. No way did i sign that paper. The thing i didnt understand was in the paperwork that they wanted me to sign it clearly stated that my son was in 8th grade but he was at a forth grade level. very low test score. I have put my trust in the schools throughout the years. The schools have failed my son and so have i as a mother. I should have reserched.

    Posted by: tammy on Tuesday, 27 September 2011

  2. How IDEA Can Help You Help Your Child
    They are doing the same thing to my son. He is extreme;y LD in Math. He is in the ninth grade and tested on a 6th grade level going into High School and they forced him to be placed in Algebra 1. There is no way he can do this! I called the State Department of Education in South Carolina and was told that he can not take basic math-even though he is passing all of his other core subjects, and still get a state issued diploma. He has to take Algebra 1, Algebra 2 and either Geometry or Trig. What a joke!!! They said he can go to High School until he is 21-not an answer; or he can get a certificate stating that he attended High school and try for his GED after his 12th grade year. It is a sin what our education system is doing to out children! I truly feel your pain with your daughter.

    Posted by: Tammy Smyth on Sunday, 03 April 2011

  3. How IDEA Can Help You Help Your Child
    my daughter is 11th grade now she has been in speical ed classes since the first grade,we were told by her High School this year that my daughter is NOT intitled to a regular high school diploma and that in her 12th grade (next year) they will teach her how to pass the GED,I beleave this is wrong,how can a school deny a regular high school diploma to a student that completes High school and tell them all they can have is a GED,and the school is telling me and my wife that my daughter has zero credits towards towards gaduation how can this be?last year (in her 10th grade)she missed making HIGH HONOR ROLL by half a point her grades are always great,are the schools allowed to do this to my child,I beleave this is wrong and is a violation of my daughters civil rights,they are denying my daughter a regular high school diploma because she is in speical ed and because she has a learnig disabilty????

    Posted by: Joseph Bush on Tuesday, 16 November 2010

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